Daily Archives: November 13, 2014


To Parents & Teachers: When the Carrot Beats the Stick

This post is for the grown-ups, the parents and teachers, and fair warning, I’m going to get personal. The month between Halloween and Thanksgiving marks the peak of college application writing for CPE students—an exciting, nerve-wracking rite of passage for our university-bound teens, who are full of energy, excitement, apprehension, and wonderment about their immediate and long-term futures. It’s a precious time, psychologically speaking, when the window of vulnerability and teachability may open wider than normal. I believe it’s one of the most important times to try extra hard to be encouraging rather than discouraging. I say this from two […]